Riley Caldwell

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Why MORE Sex Will Help You Overcome P*rn Addiction.


Title: How to quit pornography forever

How to Quit Watching P*rn Forever

  • “How-to” works. Forever sounds good.

  • Thumbnail: Just a simple photo of me sitting meh-faced, hands in lap, looking at camera. Maybe even with the word “How” on left top corner, with Canva’s “Outline” effect added.

Quitting P*rn with Terry Crews

  • Authority figure. Simple. Funny and interesting with the thumbnail, but of course the possible answer’s also intriguing.

  • Thumbnail: Me on one side, Terry Crews on the other side of the split-centre line. Arms crossed?

  • I’ll just use one of his quotes or something and advice from him haha, and not featured just yet.


How to quit pornography. Holistic view. I’ll get Terry Crews on in the future.

1) Holistic health:

What’s helped me go from doing weird stuff, to having homosexual thoughts when I’ve truly decided that I’m not even bisexual, and watching it all the time, to… not doing any of this, is the following:

Finding my purpose, yeh yeh I know.

Which really just means that I asked myself introspective questions to determine what the general direction it was that I wanted to move in, and why.

Another thing was giving myself things to do.

I had to fit in studies, going to the gym I was paying for and eventually just at home, writing blogs or researching crypto, now making YouTube content.

Almost like the only time when distracting yourself from a problem can actually be helpful haha.

2) Only to a degree though, I find if I have thoughts about pornography, that ignoring them and genuinely coming back to the present moment actually makes it more likely that I’ll feel really tempted within the next few days.

Alternatively, letting the thoughts run their race, seems to be correlated, at least for me, with less of those thoughts occurring throughout the day.

Therefore it’s less likely that I’ll be tempted.

Also, drink water and eat well.

I’ll be talking about that on Day 22, but basically, eat in a way that gives you optimal energy and doesn’t fluctuate your blood sugar levels.

Just because, you’ll be happier and more capable of immediately resisting any slight urges to watch some fake adult content online.

In my experience, the days where I sat around more, didn’t try to get any work done, and maybe even had an unhealthy breakfast, I was more likely to give into ANY kind of urges.

3) Tantric sex.

Tantric sex is a practice tied to Hinduism, and seems to be transferring sexual energy from one partner to another.

Slow, passionate movements connecting the two people immensely.

Not to hate on Christianity, but the whole no sex before marriage thing actually sounds like an awful idea.

You’re scarily hindering the quality of the connection that you could have with your partner, if you had the friendship, the romantic feelings AND the sexual connection.

This is made clear in the Song of Songs, which speaks about 3 key aspects to a romantic relationship, Raya, Ahava and Dod.

Raya is a friend, you get along really well.

Ahava is the romantic desire to always be with the person, and maybe even value their life or safety over your own.

And dod is the sexual connection between the two individuals.

All 3 burning together is what you’re entitled to, if you put in the effort either in your current relationship, or in a future one.

4) Literally got an ACTUAL promotion code for Covenant Eyes.

It literally deletes everything porn or lewd or sex related from your laptop and phone.

It’s surprisingly powerful.

I don’t have it anymore, but I’m gonna get it.

You can’t just rely on discipline… which is true for everything and anything.

5) That’s it!

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